Wishes
Look at this sample situation:
Sofia talking about her English skills
I wish my English was better. If only I didn’t make so many mistakes when I speak. I’d love to be able to understand films without subtitles so it’s time I practised more!
You can see from these examples that we often use the past simple (was, didn’t make, practised) to talk about situations we would like to be different now. This is called the unreal past. We also use expressions like If only, It’s time, and I’d rather to show similar feelings.
Meaning & structure
We use wish and related expressions to talk about:
Present situations we are not happy about
I wish I had more free time.
is the same as
I don’t have much free time now.
Form: wish + subject + (unreal) past simple
Affirmative:
I wish I lived nearer the beach.
= I don’t live near the beach.
Negative:
I wish I didn’t have to work today.
= I have to work today.
If only can be used instead of I wish to add emphasis and for stronger, more emotional feelings.
Affirmative:
If only I knew how to dance!
Negative:
If only you weren’t so stubborn!
Past situations we regret
I wish I had studied harder for the exam.
= I didn’t study hard enough.
Form: wish/if only + subject + past perfect
Affirmative:
I wish/If only I had studied harder for the exam.
Negative:
I wish/If only I hadn’t been so rude to her!
Present or future situations we want to change
We often use this structure to express complaints or annoyance or when we want someone else (or something) to behave differently in the future. It's usually something we cannot control.
I wish you would stop interrupting me.
= please stop interrupting me.
Form: wish/if only + subject + would + base verb
Affirmative:
I wish it would stop raining.
Negative:
If only you wouldn’t talk so loudly!
Be careful! We don't use this to talk about ourselves:
I wish I would study harder.
sounds strange. We can control how much we study. It’d be much more natural to say
I wish I studied harder.
Also, this form doesn’t work with state verbs such as know, be, like, believe, understand, etc. because would here is about change or willingness and states don’t change in that way.
I wish you would know Spanish.
is wrong and instead should be
I wish you knew Spanish.
Other related forms: